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If not, the rules are clearly not applicable. Masculine identified women are well aware of how the world views them. Simply dressing and grooming for a butch woman can be a political statement—she is saying that the socially constructed version of womanhood does not define her. The confidence she has now has probably been hard won.

She has likely experienced her fair share of negativity at the cost of being true to herself. Much like being a butch woman requires a certain level of confidence and security, so does loving one. Femmes who otherwise were accustomed to walking the streets unnoticed as a queer woman must become accustomed to a different life—one where being unrecognized fr passersby Butch looking for her lady be a thing of the past.

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If she deems it necessary to leave a situation, leave first, ask questions later. There are certain scenarios and situations that can be cause for concern for masculine identified women that we femmes might not notice. For a butch woman, the rules are different.

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And I now have to live with some of the damage I caused by questioning what she knows to be true through her lived experience.

Trust that your butch lady is keen to what is safe and what is not. There are other versions of this type of behavior, each having its own specific type of offender and victim. Google Matt Damon and whitesplaining if you need looklng update.

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Have you ever felt completely unheard and misunderstood when sharing this with a man? Has a man ever tried to diminish that experience or talk lookijg out of what you know to be true? How did that feel?

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We know hsr, if we can walk through that pain, we can love our partners on a deeper level. And, although facing their pain in such a real way may hurt, it will only serve to further solidify the bond that we share.

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I have not walked through this world knowing that being who I am is an affront to the sensibilities of many. I simply cannot understand.

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